life after her!!!

it has been almost seven months since her passing. November 2011 i lost the most precious thing in my whole life, my mother. her death came as a huge shock to me as i had just spoken to her over the phone few days earlier before her death. she died at the age of 69 years, just a little over 3 weeks before her 70th birthday.

however, one thing i have learnt so far is the fact that life still has to go on. yes it has not been much of a smooth ride, but i still have to move on and live my life without her presence... lol don't get me wrong here people, its not like i am a mama's boy or anything like that. its just that i was too attached to her for as long as i could remember. so i am sure you will understand where i am coming from.

anyway, that is not why i decided to update my page. i am here to tell you that i have met someone i like and love. she makes me smile and laugh all the times. more updates about her and me will come every now and then, for now i will keep it the sack. until then have a safe week.

 

The History!!!

The name is khuselo Dipha. born in the Easten Cape, Port elzabeth. I was raised by a single Mother, her name alice Noxolo Dipha.Also from  the Easten Cape, Qumbu in a small Vilage called Mjikweni.

During my Nursary stages (0-9) i grew up in PE, Number 490 Vuku Road. At the age of nine my mother introduced me to a totally different world from the one i knew. This was in 1994, when i went to Qumbu, Emjikweni for the first time. this was a great challenge for me. Because i had to adapt to the new world that was just introduced to me. One of the biggest challenges for me was that i had to, every afternoon go and fetch/collect the live stock (sheeps, goats and cows). Now, for me this was very dificult because, at that time of the day (afternoon) it was time for me to watch Cartoons.

To cut my story short, after i had survived the rural areas. i went back to PE and stayed for a few years, then went back to Qumbu again. And then, i ended up in Cape Town, Samora Machel. Where i stayed with my mother for a few years untill my grand mother passed on. And we had to move back to Qumbu. We stayed at Qumbu for a number of years, well!!! at leats this time i was a grown man and had undergone the Traditional Circumcision. Untill i decided to pack my bags and go back home (PE), i had  taken this decision because of the education system in Qumbu which; was not very satisfactory to me.

Well!!! today because of that big decision i took. i am proud to say that i am a third year student at the Nelson Mandela Metropolitan University (NMMU) the so called UPE, PE TECH and VISTA UNIVERSITY.